Jobs and CareersLiving a Passionate Life - 5 Tips on Being Patient
By Paula Harvey
Designing a passionate life requires focus and patience. It is easy to get caught up in events of the day and lose patience. To be patient means to be steadfast or calm in the face of obstacles or difficulties and without complaint.
Have you ever experienced a person who is patient under all circumstances no matter what is occurring? I have and I found that they understand that a lack of patience, drains your energy, creates negative energy for all people concerned, and stagnates creativity. Very often, impatience causes harsh words and arguments in all kinds of relationships.
When you start to feel impatient, try one or more of the following 5 tips and see what happens:
1. Stop take a deep breathe in through your nose, and breathe out through your mouth while you say ahhhhhh. Notice the difference in your body. Is any of the tension in your body gone? If not, try it again. Depending on how invested you are in impatience, you may need to take a few breaths to notice a difference.
2. Ask yourself: Where am I living right now, in the past, present, or future? If you are impatient, perhaps it is because you are remembering a similar circumstance that had a negative outcome, or you want this moment to be over because you believe that the future will be better than the present. If you are not in the present, change your focus to what is occurring right now and perhaps you can affect a different outcome by using some creativity.
3. Ask yourself: What can I learn from this experience? Reflect on what is occurring and notice the emotions that are present in this event. What are other possibilities for how you could be in this experience? How can you change to reduce your level of impatience?
4. Ask yourself: What story am I creating about this experience? Often times we make up stories as to why we believe a person or an event is not going how we thought it would go. Notice the story that you make up and see if you can make up a different one that reduces your impatience.
5. To be patient requires faith. You may have a goal or a plan that you want to implement and it is taking longer than you want it to. Being impatient will probably delay the outcome even more because your creative energy will be stagnated and you may not see other possible actions to take that could move your forward faster and easier. Patience requires faith in yourself, the process, and your higher power.
What is your experience in being patient as you design a passionate life?
I wonder what would happen if you were able to identify your passions and start living in alignment with them? I offer tips and methods for living passionately on my blog. I'd like to invite you to receive my free Passion Deficit Disorder (PDD) Report and find out why passion is so important in your life and what you can do about it. You can get your instant access at http://www.DesigningAPassionateLife.com
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How to Develop Powerful Charisma
By George Hutton
I've you ever heard about somebody that has incredible charisma, you probably heard their name spoken with a different energy that other peoples names. Think back now, if you can, and remember a time when you and your friend were talking about something. Then this person's name came up in the conversation. You could sense that everybody who knew who this person was suddenly changed their focus, just slightly. They suddenly became interested in this person. You didn't know who this person was, so perhaps you listened carefully as well, and tried to figure out exactly what it was that caused all the others to become so interested in this. They may have tried to describe to you what it was that made this person, so, so, so, cool. They might have even realized themselves that they couldn't really put into words why this person was so cool.
But they felt an attraction, a desire, a pull towards this person. They felt like whenever this person was in their presence, anything was possible. They somehow were able to forget their normal anxieties and only think of the opportunities that lay ahead. Forget about their fears and think only of the good things to come. Well, because you are sitting there, reading this article, (which means you are smart enough to realize that it's important to learn new things), you are about to learn the secrets of this magical power. Many of my articles on my blog are dedicated to this. I find this a fascinating subject, and many people come by to find out more.
This quality, of course, is called charisma. But what is it? How do you get it? Are you born with it? Can you get it from a bottle? Can you learn it in a class? Actually, it's much easier than you think, just like many secrets to success. The trick is to change your thinking just a bit, and you will discover your power. Here are three things that can powerfully improve your charisma so that people will be talking about YOU like we described above. Ready? I thought so.
One
Genuinely appreciate people. Learn to appreciate EVERYBODY that you come across for some reason. If something doesn't come to you right away when you see somebody, make up a reason. Surely in their past they have been kind to somebody, or helped out a child, or given money to a homeless person. If you want you can imagine they are made of the same source energy that you are, and that you are really manifestations of the same energy. Or they are a fellow creature of God. Or they are a fellow republican. Or they are likely a soldier in the fight against global warming. Anything that you can think of. And let them know. Even if it is through brief eye contact and a smile, let them know through your facial expression that you appreciate them, and you don't require anything in return.
Two
Give them space to respond. Even a second or two. When you see them, appreciate them, and smile at them. Give them at least a couple seconds to respond. Don't worry or lose any respect for them if they don't. Give them the opportunity, and respect their decision to respond or not to respond.
Three
Move on. After you've given them the opportunity to respond, shift your energy back to where it was before you saw them. Allow them the peace to move on in their own world without worrying about you. Kind of like catch and release. Even if they look at you like you are some kind of kook, let them have their opinion, and move on. If they smiled back at you, accept it and move on, just as quickly. What you are doing is building up your experience of positive interactions with people, without building up a need for a positive response. You'll find that the more you do this, the more people will respond positively to you. Pretty soon, people will sense your energy coming from a mile away. Be careful not to expect any positive response from anybody, as this will taint your energy, and remove the charisma that you've built up.
It's as simple as that. One, two three. Appreciate, pause, release. It might seem scary at first, but that's ok. The more you do this, the more you build up your confidence and self esteem. And that in turn will make people feel even better when you beam your appreciation at them.
Because so many people enjoy things like this, I've written many other articles on my blog. If you are interested in learning more, come by a read a few more articles when you get a chance, or watch some of my videos. Few things are better than increasing your charisma to help other people feel better.
George Hutton is a widely read author and blogger who writes inspirational and life changing articles. You can join many others who read daily at http://www.georgehutton.net/wordpress
You can also view his videos at http://www.youtube.com/georgewhutton
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Stop Nail Biting Now!
By Cynthia McBride
Nail biting has been with me for as long as I can remember. I can never remember a time when I did not bite my nails, or have stubby little, bitten up fingers! It was embarrassing, having this nasty habit defining me! Friends would catch me, sitting there, fingers in my mouth, absently chewing away. I would go to a job interview and feel the need to hide my nasty looking finger nails, or rather, what was left of them.
Occasionally I would come across someone with horrible looking fingers like mine, and catch myself thinking, "WOW! What is going on in her life, that she has finger nails that look like that?" And then I remembered my own chewed nails and thought about how I must come across to people!
I had pretty much given up the hope of ever having normal looking hands. And then I found a technique that was developed by Anthony Robbins, the author of Awaken the Giant Within. I was familiar with Mr. Robbins' work, having read his books and listened to some of his tapes. He is a master at empowering people to become all that they can be. He can motivate probably anyone to take something and run with it! But could he motivate me to stop biting my nails?
So I watched this video, 'Stop Nail Biting Secrets', that identifies the triggers that cause me to chew my fingernails. The triggers are replaced by new empowering responses that empower me to not bite my nails. If you are familiar with Anthony Robbins' work, this will make sense to you, as his work is all about people empowering themselves.
This program is guaranteed to work, and work in only 9 minutes! And it does work. I have lost the desire for nail biting. I can not believe that in only 9 minutes, my disgusting, lifelong nail biting habit is gone! But hey--believe me, I am not complaining!
If you don't believe me, check it out for yourself!
http://www.stopbitingnails.info
Cynthia McBride has been (unfortunately) a life long nail biter and knows first hand, the embarrassment of having chewed up, bitten down fingernails. An avid interest in meditation and the power of the mind has led her to discover the 'secret' to stop nail biting, and she is happy to report that she has normal looking fingernails....finally! http://www.stopbitingnails.info
By Paula Harvey
Designing a passionate life requires focus and patience. It is easy to get caught up in events of the day and lose patience. To be patient means to be steadfast or calm in the face of obstacles or difficulties and without complaint.
Have you ever experienced a person who is patient under all circumstances no matter what is occurring? I have and I found that they understand that a lack of patience, drains your energy, creates negative energy for all people concerned, and stagnates creativity. Very often, impatience causes harsh words and arguments in all kinds of relationships.
When you start to feel impatient, try one or more of the following 5 tips and see what happens:
1. Stop take a deep breathe in through your nose, and breathe out through your mouth while you say ahhhhhh. Notice the difference in your body. Is any of the tension in your body gone? If not, try it again. Depending on how invested you are in impatience, you may need to take a few breaths to notice a difference.
2. Ask yourself: Where am I living right now, in the past, present, or future? If you are impatient, perhaps it is because you are remembering a similar circumstance that had a negative outcome, or you want this moment to be over because you believe that the future will be better than the present. If you are not in the present, change your focus to what is occurring right now and perhaps you can affect a different outcome by using some creativity.
3. Ask yourself: What can I learn from this experience? Reflect on what is occurring and notice the emotions that are present in this event. What are other possibilities for how you could be in this experience? How can you change to reduce your level of impatience?
4. Ask yourself: What story am I creating about this experience? Often times we make up stories as to why we believe a person or an event is not going how we thought it would go. Notice the story that you make up and see if you can make up a different one that reduces your impatience.
5. To be patient requires faith. You may have a goal or a plan that you want to implement and it is taking longer than you want it to. Being impatient will probably delay the outcome even more because your creative energy will be stagnated and you may not see other possible actions to take that could move your forward faster and easier. Patience requires faith in yourself, the process, and your higher power.
What is your experience in being patient as you design a passionate life?
I wonder what would happen if you were able to identify your passions and start living in alignment with them? I offer tips and methods for living passionately on my blog. I'd like to invite you to receive my free Passion Deficit Disorder (PDD) Report and find out why passion is so important in your life and what you can do about it. You can get your instant access at http://www.DesigningAPassionateLife.com
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How to Develop Powerful Charisma
By George Hutton
I've you ever heard about somebody that has incredible charisma, you probably heard their name spoken with a different energy that other peoples names. Think back now, if you can, and remember a time when you and your friend were talking about something. Then this person's name came up in the conversation. You could sense that everybody who knew who this person was suddenly changed their focus, just slightly. They suddenly became interested in this person. You didn't know who this person was, so perhaps you listened carefully as well, and tried to figure out exactly what it was that caused all the others to become so interested in this. They may have tried to describe to you what it was that made this person, so, so, so, cool. They might have even realized themselves that they couldn't really put into words why this person was so cool.
But they felt an attraction, a desire, a pull towards this person. They felt like whenever this person was in their presence, anything was possible. They somehow were able to forget their normal anxieties and only think of the opportunities that lay ahead. Forget about their fears and think only of the good things to come. Well, because you are sitting there, reading this article, (which means you are smart enough to realize that it's important to learn new things), you are about to learn the secrets of this magical power. Many of my articles on my blog are dedicated to this. I find this a fascinating subject, and many people come by to find out more.
This quality, of course, is called charisma. But what is it? How do you get it? Are you born with it? Can you get it from a bottle? Can you learn it in a class? Actually, it's much easier than you think, just like many secrets to success. The trick is to change your thinking just a bit, and you will discover your power. Here are three things that can powerfully improve your charisma so that people will be talking about YOU like we described above. Ready? I thought so.
One
Genuinely appreciate people. Learn to appreciate EVERYBODY that you come across for some reason. If something doesn't come to you right away when you see somebody, make up a reason. Surely in their past they have been kind to somebody, or helped out a child, or given money to a homeless person. If you want you can imagine they are made of the same source energy that you are, and that you are really manifestations of the same energy. Or they are a fellow creature of God. Or they are a fellow republican. Or they are likely a soldier in the fight against global warming. Anything that you can think of. And let them know. Even if it is through brief eye contact and a smile, let them know through your facial expression that you appreciate them, and you don't require anything in return.
Two
Give them space to respond. Even a second or two. When you see them, appreciate them, and smile at them. Give them at least a couple seconds to respond. Don't worry or lose any respect for them if they don't. Give them the opportunity, and respect their decision to respond or not to respond.
Three
Move on. After you've given them the opportunity to respond, shift your energy back to where it was before you saw them. Allow them the peace to move on in their own world without worrying about you. Kind of like catch and release. Even if they look at you like you are some kind of kook, let them have their opinion, and move on. If they smiled back at you, accept it and move on, just as quickly. What you are doing is building up your experience of positive interactions with people, without building up a need for a positive response. You'll find that the more you do this, the more people will respond positively to you. Pretty soon, people will sense your energy coming from a mile away. Be careful not to expect any positive response from anybody, as this will taint your energy, and remove the charisma that you've built up.
It's as simple as that. One, two three. Appreciate, pause, release. It might seem scary at first, but that's ok. The more you do this, the more you build up your confidence and self esteem. And that in turn will make people feel even better when you beam your appreciation at them.
Because so many people enjoy things like this, I've written many other articles on my blog. If you are interested in learning more, come by a read a few more articles when you get a chance, or watch some of my videos. Few things are better than increasing your charisma to help other people feel better.
George Hutton is a widely read author and blogger who writes inspirational and life changing articles. You can join many others who read daily at http://www.georgehutton.net/wordpress
You can also view his videos at http://www.youtube.com/georgewhutton
========================================
Stop Nail Biting Now!
By Cynthia McBride
Nail biting has been with me for as long as I can remember. I can never remember a time when I did not bite my nails, or have stubby little, bitten up fingers! It was embarrassing, having this nasty habit defining me! Friends would catch me, sitting there, fingers in my mouth, absently chewing away. I would go to a job interview and feel the need to hide my nasty looking finger nails, or rather, what was left of them.
Occasionally I would come across someone with horrible looking fingers like mine, and catch myself thinking, "WOW! What is going on in her life, that she has finger nails that look like that?" And then I remembered my own chewed nails and thought about how I must come across to people!
I had pretty much given up the hope of ever having normal looking hands. And then I found a technique that was developed by Anthony Robbins, the author of Awaken the Giant Within. I was familiar with Mr. Robbins' work, having read his books and listened to some of his tapes. He is a master at empowering people to become all that they can be. He can motivate probably anyone to take something and run with it! But could he motivate me to stop biting my nails?
So I watched this video, 'Stop Nail Biting Secrets', that identifies the triggers that cause me to chew my fingernails. The triggers are replaced by new empowering responses that empower me to not bite my nails. If you are familiar with Anthony Robbins' work, this will make sense to you, as his work is all about people empowering themselves.
This program is guaranteed to work, and work in only 9 minutes! And it does work. I have lost the desire for nail biting. I can not believe that in only 9 minutes, my disgusting, lifelong nail biting habit is gone! But hey--believe me, I am not complaining!
If you don't believe me, check it out for yourself!
http://www.stopbitingnails.info
Cynthia McBride has been (unfortunately) a life long nail biter and knows first hand, the embarrassment of having chewed up, bitten down fingernails. An avid interest in meditation and the power of the mind has led her to discover the 'secret' to stop nail biting, and she is happy to report that she has normal looking fingernails....finally! http://www.stopbitingnails.info
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