The Pains of Success - Patience and Persistence
By Asiah Wolfolk-Manning
How many times have you become frustrated with your computer because it was moving too slowly? When was the last time you got annoyed for having to wait in line? How often have you paid extra money just to receive faster service? In today's society, we expect to get our news, information, food, and pleasures quick and easy. We have grown accustomed to a much faster pace and are impatient when we do not receive what we want exactly when we want it.
Despite our expectations, however, there are some things in life that still require patience and persistence. When it comes to accomplishing a task or achieving a goal, there will always be success stories of those who got it right the very first time they did it. But, the majority of us will have to try more than once to reach our goal. More than likely, we will have to endure the pains of waiting and refusing to accept defeat before we experience success.
When we look at people who are successful in their field, they often make success look easy. We see the rewards and benefits of their hard work, but seldom think about the sacrifices and failures they experienced to get to that level. One of the greatest basketball players of all time, Michael Jordan said: "I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed." The question is - how many people are willing to take 9000 shots at their goal? How many will fail 300 times and continue to get back into the game?
When I first graduated from law school, I applied for a position with the Florida Department of Children and Families. At the time, they did not have any entry level attorney positions available and told me to check back with them in the future. And, that's exactly what I did! I contacted them every two weeks, just to see if there had been any changes. I wasn't trying to be a pest, but I wanted to show my interest in the position. After about six weeks, impressed by my tenacity, they found a position for me and offered me a job. It is quite possible that I would not have been offered the job if I had not shown such determination. I exercised patience and persistence and it paid off!
The next time you feel yourself trying to hurry your success along or ready to give up on your goal, remember these three points:
1 - Time is going to pass whether you achieve your goal or not. You can come out of it having accomplished something, or you can just come out of it.
2 - You may have to wait longer and try harder than you expected to experience success. But, if you give up too soon, you are guaranteed to fail.
3 - Success is a choice. The only way you will fail is if you choose not to succeed!
Asiah Wolfolk-Manning, Esq.
Author and Professional Speaker
http://www.asiahunlimited.com
http://www.unlimityourselfbook.com
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7 Insights to Help You Survive and Overcome Any Recession
By Hugues Nkamwa
These are difficult times. Times such as these call for drastic measures in our personal lives. When all else seems to fail do not give up. Go within and do the work that has to be done to retain control of your life and the experiences you live through.
Here are 7 total success insights to allow you to quickly regain your footing and live the successful life:
1. Act Boldly. Do not be timid. Face the challenges of your life with courage and audacity. If you are poor seek to become wealthy, really wealthy. If you want to grow your enterprise, create monster goals.
2. Set new goals. Do not let your circumstances or environment define you or what you are capable of. If you are now poor great! Then what? Become something else.
3. Attach emotions to your goals. Attach strong emotions to the goals you have created for yourself. Do not attach any emotions to the fact that times are hard. Do not feed what you do not want.
4. Create an ideal for your life. Create a sound, certain and long term ideal for the life you intend to live. This can be a single philosophy of a life of total fulfilling success.
5. Embody this ideal. Become the leader and embodiment of this philosophy. This is needed for the ideal of the life you have created to survive.
6. Belief in your ideal. Belief in the ideal and goal you have created and be willing to do all in your power so it can have life. Belief that you are the ideal.
7. Refuse to negotiate. Decide that you are not going to compromise your ideal life or goal. Coming from a position of defeat you have nothing more to loose. Your aim is to build clout over the circumstances of your life; any offer to make peace with the things you do not want in your life will undercut your power.
You will inevitably succeed in whatever you do if you follow these tips. It is your life. To reach great heights and achieve awesome goals you have to find great depth within you. Times are hard, dig deep within you and create the success that you deserve. In this time hope is not enough; act with certainty and total success will be yours.
From Hugues Nkamwa - Breakthrough insights to a totally successful life!
Master Teacher and Motivational Consultant
If you found this article helpful please visit http://www.totalsuccessinsight.com You will find a chock full of free breakthrough articles on creating total success in your life. Feel free to sign for our free resources and receive cutting edge insights on achieving total success. Delivered daily to your in box.
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Build Instant Resolve - 5 Tips to Quickly Build a Will of Steel and Achieve Your Goals
By Hugues Nkamwa
There are five things you need to know right now in order to build the resolve necessary to accomplish your goals. And it doesn't matter how big or how small your goals are.
Here they are:
1. Be patient.
This is old but ever true. There is no rush when you are heading to the place of your destiny. Be guided by the sense of accomplishment that awaits you. You will have to have tried many times and failed in accomplishing your goals in order to finally succeed without trying. Be patient.
2. Be Focused and avoid distractions.
To build the resolve to achieve your goal demands focus, laser like focus. The world is full of distractions. A traveler makes no enemies; the friends he makes during his journey help him towards his destination. Avoid distractions.
3. Take one step at a time.
You can achieve a big goal by achieving small goals. Taking one step at a time is a sure road to your ultimate victory. This will build resolve in you.
4. Overcome the fear of failure.
Wholly accept your purpose and desire through faith. It is said that you cannot desire a thing which you cannot create. Trust in this and step out in faith.
5. Avoid the blame game.
What will break your resolve to succeed are the obstacles you will face as you seek to create. No one wins in this life without obstacles. If you have the habit of blaming people, circumstances and other situations outside yourself for your conditions in life you are stuck. You are done, literally. Forge on no matter the obstacle you face, let no one or nothing hold you back.
Your resolve is a necessary part of your take off to a life of total success. Many people cannot take off because they lack this power. Apply these five tips and you will soon soar to the heights of your dream.
From Hugues Nkamwa -Breakthrough insights to a totally successful life!
Master Teacher and Motivational Consultant
If you found this article helpful please visit http://www.totalsuccessinsight.com You will find a chock full of free breakthrough articles on creating total success in your life. Feel free to sign for our free resources and receive cutting edge insights on achieving total success. Delivered daily to your in box.
By Asiah Wolfolk-Manning
How many times have you become frustrated with your computer because it was moving too slowly? When was the last time you got annoyed for having to wait in line? How often have you paid extra money just to receive faster service? In today's society, we expect to get our news, information, food, and pleasures quick and easy. We have grown accustomed to a much faster pace and are impatient when we do not receive what we want exactly when we want it.
Despite our expectations, however, there are some things in life that still require patience and persistence. When it comes to accomplishing a task or achieving a goal, there will always be success stories of those who got it right the very first time they did it. But, the majority of us will have to try more than once to reach our goal. More than likely, we will have to endure the pains of waiting and refusing to accept defeat before we experience success.
When we look at people who are successful in their field, they often make success look easy. We see the rewards and benefits of their hard work, but seldom think about the sacrifices and failures they experienced to get to that level. One of the greatest basketball players of all time, Michael Jordan said: "I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed." The question is - how many people are willing to take 9000 shots at their goal? How many will fail 300 times and continue to get back into the game?
When I first graduated from law school, I applied for a position with the Florida Department of Children and Families. At the time, they did not have any entry level attorney positions available and told me to check back with them in the future. And, that's exactly what I did! I contacted them every two weeks, just to see if there had been any changes. I wasn't trying to be a pest, but I wanted to show my interest in the position. After about six weeks, impressed by my tenacity, they found a position for me and offered me a job. It is quite possible that I would not have been offered the job if I had not shown such determination. I exercised patience and persistence and it paid off!
The next time you feel yourself trying to hurry your success along or ready to give up on your goal, remember these three points:
1 - Time is going to pass whether you achieve your goal or not. You can come out of it having accomplished something, or you can just come out of it.
2 - You may have to wait longer and try harder than you expected to experience success. But, if you give up too soon, you are guaranteed to fail.
3 - Success is a choice. The only way you will fail is if you choose not to succeed!
Asiah Wolfolk-Manning, Esq.
Author and Professional Speaker
http://www.asiahunlimited.com
http://www.unlimityourselfbook.com
=======================================
7 Insights to Help You Survive and Overcome Any Recession
By Hugues Nkamwa
These are difficult times. Times such as these call for drastic measures in our personal lives. When all else seems to fail do not give up. Go within and do the work that has to be done to retain control of your life and the experiences you live through.
Here are 7 total success insights to allow you to quickly regain your footing and live the successful life:
1. Act Boldly. Do not be timid. Face the challenges of your life with courage and audacity. If you are poor seek to become wealthy, really wealthy. If you want to grow your enterprise, create monster goals.
2. Set new goals. Do not let your circumstances or environment define you or what you are capable of. If you are now poor great! Then what? Become something else.
3. Attach emotions to your goals. Attach strong emotions to the goals you have created for yourself. Do not attach any emotions to the fact that times are hard. Do not feed what you do not want.
4. Create an ideal for your life. Create a sound, certain and long term ideal for the life you intend to live. This can be a single philosophy of a life of total fulfilling success.
5. Embody this ideal. Become the leader and embodiment of this philosophy. This is needed for the ideal of the life you have created to survive.
6. Belief in your ideal. Belief in the ideal and goal you have created and be willing to do all in your power so it can have life. Belief that you are the ideal.
7. Refuse to negotiate. Decide that you are not going to compromise your ideal life or goal. Coming from a position of defeat you have nothing more to loose. Your aim is to build clout over the circumstances of your life; any offer to make peace with the things you do not want in your life will undercut your power.
You will inevitably succeed in whatever you do if you follow these tips. It is your life. To reach great heights and achieve awesome goals you have to find great depth within you. Times are hard, dig deep within you and create the success that you deserve. In this time hope is not enough; act with certainty and total success will be yours.
From Hugues Nkamwa - Breakthrough insights to a totally successful life!
Master Teacher and Motivational Consultant
If you found this article helpful please visit http://www.totalsuccessinsight.com You will find a chock full of free breakthrough articles on creating total success in your life. Feel free to sign for our free resources and receive cutting edge insights on achieving total success. Delivered daily to your in box.
===================================
Build Instant Resolve - 5 Tips to Quickly Build a Will of Steel and Achieve Your Goals
By Hugues Nkamwa
There are five things you need to know right now in order to build the resolve necessary to accomplish your goals. And it doesn't matter how big or how small your goals are.
Here they are:
1. Be patient.
This is old but ever true. There is no rush when you are heading to the place of your destiny. Be guided by the sense of accomplishment that awaits you. You will have to have tried many times and failed in accomplishing your goals in order to finally succeed without trying. Be patient.
2. Be Focused and avoid distractions.
To build the resolve to achieve your goal demands focus, laser like focus. The world is full of distractions. A traveler makes no enemies; the friends he makes during his journey help him towards his destination. Avoid distractions.
3. Take one step at a time.
You can achieve a big goal by achieving small goals. Taking one step at a time is a sure road to your ultimate victory. This will build resolve in you.
4. Overcome the fear of failure.
Wholly accept your purpose and desire through faith. It is said that you cannot desire a thing which you cannot create. Trust in this and step out in faith.
5. Avoid the blame game.
What will break your resolve to succeed are the obstacles you will face as you seek to create. No one wins in this life without obstacles. If you have the habit of blaming people, circumstances and other situations outside yourself for your conditions in life you are stuck. You are done, literally. Forge on no matter the obstacle you face, let no one or nothing hold you back.
Your resolve is a necessary part of your take off to a life of total success. Many people cannot take off because they lack this power. Apply these five tips and you will soon soar to the heights of your dream.
From Hugues Nkamwa -Breakthrough insights to a totally successful life!
Master Teacher and Motivational Consultant
If you found this article helpful please visit http://www.totalsuccessinsight.com You will find a chock full of free breakthrough articles on creating total success in your life. Feel free to sign for our free resources and receive cutting edge insights on achieving total success. Delivered daily to your in box.
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